Coping With Depression: A Poem

Some people I’m close to are going through some difficult times right now. Some are having relationship problems, others are enduring career crises, and some are just very, very low.

So in the spirit of Valentine’s Day – which is, at the end of the day, a celebration of friendship and love – I thought I’d post this poem written by the fabulous Colleen Wainwright of Communicatrix fame.

I’ve been sending it around a lot lately:

For Occasional Blues

When you are low

—and you will be,
just as sure as you
may not be now—

it is good to have
a few necessities in stock
to keep the beasts
at bay.

Like your day at Point Dume,
and that wall of wind pushing back
as you sung the first three lines
of fifty pop songs
against it
while your heart screamed,
my ocean!

Or sinking into the air-cooled comfort
of first show at the Grove
and tucking your chilled toes
up under your tush
as you prepared
to disappear
for two delicious hours

Or the heat of the tarpaper tiles
on the low-slanted roof
as you baked between classes
beside your traveling companion,
passing salted Ruffles
and a half-quart tub of sour cream
back and forth
against the prospect
of imminent minor discomfort.

The trick
if there is one
is to recall specifics
with the precision
of an ichthyologist
aligning individual scales:
the feel of leaning in
the nap of new velour
the slope of the incline

And if you can’t,
make it up

But precisely

God is in the details
even if you are the god
who put them there

and it is through these million
man-made pinholes
that you will reconnect
with the All-That-Is
and find the love
that eludes you now.

Send this to someone you love. We all need a pick-me-up once in awhile…

Image: Depression by Canonsnapper via Flickr under a Creative Commons License.

Add to FacebookAdd to NewsvineAdd to DiggAdd to Del.icio.usAdd to StumbleuponAdd to RedditAdd to BlinklistAdd to TwitterAdd to TechnoratiAdd to Furl

Advertisements

20 Responses to Coping With Depression: A Poem

  1. sagehope says:

    Hi, I found you by the tag “LOVE” I am connecting with people who are on some level like minded. So, Hi, and hope to speak to you in the near future.

  2. Tammy McLeod says:

    This is a great poem. Her descriptions are alive and one can imagine actually being pulled from depression. I found your blog when I searched on “love”. That’s pretty cool.

  3. sagehope says:

    It is wonderful that you have other people’s well being in mind. by for now

  4. Hey! No one finds me when I tag my posts with “love”!

    Seriously. SERIOUSLY. Thank you for sharing this one with more people, dearest D. (And thank you to any people who are sharing it further.)

    I’m not sure that these lines are the most graceful or elegant that I’ve written, but if they’re helpful, I don’t give a rat’s patootie for elegance. Depression is nightmarish and extended sorrow ain’t much better.

    YOU, however, are awesome.

  5. delialloyd says:

    They are your words, my friend, and they happened to arrive right at the perfect moment…karma it is, I suppose. Happy V Day!

  6. Rachel says:

    It always gives me hope when someone shares a poem – not quite the kind of specific sensory memories the poet speaks of as a bulwark against the darkness but still an uplifting that we’re still capable, as a species, of crafting language to capture the truths of our lives – and of recognizing them when we meet them. thanks to Delia and Colleen. Rachel

  7. Daryl Boylan says:

    You’re right — language helps. Might it help an old friend?

  8. Deborah Robertson says:

    Thank you Delia. It was perfect to be reminded this dark, sad morning that I can reconnect with the Divine whenever I need to. That I can be in charge of me. xx

  9. Cathy257 says:

    Thanks Delia! I needed that.

  10. Patricia says:

    What a great poem and I am finding so many contacts are dealing with depression right now….these words are helpful and lifting.

    I am worried sad….and letting go of my expectations…good work and this is a nice gentle touch.

    I do believe that my body made this pain to get me to stop and do this work…I might be smarter next time.
    Thank you for sharing

  11. delialloyd says:

    I’m glad it was helpful, Patricia. And I think letting go of expectations (if they are set too high) is important…you’ll make it through to the other side. We all do!

  12. Jana says:

    Wow, what a beautiful poem! Thanks for posting it.

  13. […] have to be a present. I often send friends who are sad e-cards to brighten up their day. Or poems. Or song lyrics. Or articles I come across that speak to what they’re going through. […]

  14. […] have to be a present. I often send friends who are sad e-cards to brighten up their day. Or poems. Or song lyrics. Or articles I come across that speak to what they’re going through. […]

  15. […] eloquent enough to say on my own. I did it on my father’s birthday last year, I did it when some friends were going through some rocky times, and today, I’m going to do it again, with a poem that celebrates mothers, daughters and […]

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s

%d bloggers like this: